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Where rivers of care, resilience, and belonging meet.
The Gathering Stream is a community for those longing to live from connection rather than fixing, from aliveness rather than survival.
Each week, we gather for live classes and shared practices that bring us back to our bodies, our creativity, and our place within the living earth. Here you’ll find space to breathe, move, reflect, and be witnessed.
Our offerings weave together embodied mindfulness, movement, nature connection, and deep listening.
Together, we nurture emotional resilience, explore the intelligence of the nervous system, and grow a river of collective care that supports us in remembering our belonging to life.
The Storm That Brings Us Here
Many of us arrive to this work after trying countless tools, programs, and healing paths. We work hard to fix ourselves, to push away symptoms, or to escape discomfort, only to find the same loops returning. For some, it begins with what feels like a perfect storm of stress, loss, or illness that leaves the nervous system overwhelmed. What follows is often called dysregulation, a state where symptoms and fear feed each other until life feels harder, almost impossible to live. For others, there may only be the warning signs of a storm approaching and this is your first toe in. These teachings and practices are for you, too.
Anchoring Into Wholeness
Inside The Gathering Stream, we take another approach. Instead of running from discomfort or fighting with symptoms, we turn toward what is here. Through neuroplasticity, mindfulness, somatics, exposure, and inquiry, all grounded in reverence for the natural world, we practice anchoring into resources even in the midst of the storm. Together we learn to meet what arises with care and curiosity, to soften the grip of fear, and to discover that beneath the turbulence we are not broken. Again and again, we return to the truth of our own wholeness, carried and strengthened by the current of community.

“Being part of The Gathering Stream has changed everything for me. The live classes and the Befriending Ourselves library helped me stop running from what I was feeling. I don’t need to avoid or control life anymore. For the first time in years, I feel like I actually get to enjoy it.”
- Community Member
The Gathering Stream is a living community space where we come together to practice, learn, and be resourced by one another. It is a place to turn towards yourself with care and curiosity, to share the journey with others, and to remember that healing and aliveness are not solitary paths.
Membership is designed to be both accessible and sustainable. For a low monthly cost, you receive ongoing live classes, mentorship, a rich library of teachings, and the support of a vibrant community. You are welcome to join us for as long as it serves you, and membership can be paused or cancelled at any time.
Come as you are, stay as you need, and let the current of community carry you.
The series weaves together mindfulness, somatic tracking, nervous system education, parts work, relational inquiry, and gentle exposure, all held within a paced, capacity-based approach that prioritizes safety, rest, and integration.
Alongside the core teachings, participants build a growing set of embodied resources that support daily life, symptoms, and emotional processing, while being held in a consistent, relational group container inside The Gathering Stream.
An introduction to fear, sensitization, and neuroplasticity. We explore how fear becomes self-reinforcing in the nervous system and how safety begins to return through orientation, pacing, and attention. A foundational grounding practice is introduced, alongside journaling to begin mapping fear patterns and early protective strategies.
Resource: Water — supporting fluidity, emotional movement, and responsiveness without hardening.
We explore the anxiety and compulsion cycle, including intrusive thoughts, reassurance seeking, and subtle avoidance. Acceptance is introduced as a lived practice of willingness and contact, helping interrupt escalation and reactivity. Grounding practices are refined through daily reflection and shared inquiry.
Resource: Air — supporting breath, spaciousness, and clarity of perception.
Trauma-sensitive mindfulness and a second calming tool are introduced. We focus on tracking subtle shifts in the body and nervous system, learning how capacity grows through small, reliable increments. Practice centers on staying with sensation and emotion without bracing, collapsing, or pushing away.
Resource: Earth — supporting steadiness, containment, and felt support.
An introduction to Exposure and Response Prevention. We explore the science of exposure and reframe it as a relational and nervous system practice rather than a mental challenge. Choice, pacing, and values are emphasized, making exposure a practice of trust rather than force.
Resource: Fire — supporting courage, clarity, and forward movement.
A dedicated week for rest, digestion, and self-paced practice, allowing the nervous system to integrate what has already been learned.
We map fear patterns, identify hidden compulsions, and clarify avoidance behaviours that often go unnoticed. Fear hierarchies are created with values and life direction at the center, shifting motivation from symptom control toward meaningful engagement with life.
Resource: Ether — supporting meaning, intuition, and trust in the unknown.
Exposure plans begin to take shape with guidance and reflection. We explore how confidence and resilience grow through repetition, repair, and self-trust, especially when the process feels nonlinear. Emphasis is placed on consistency over intensity and patience over performance.
Resource: The plant world — supporting slow growth, adaptation, and resilience.
We turn toward core fears and their origin stories through journaling, worksheets, and systemic perspectives. Attention is given to developmental, relational, and generational layers of fear, allowing understanding to replace self-blame and soften long-held patterns.
Resource: Animal wisdom — supporting instinct, attunement, and right pacing.
A second integration week for digestion, rest, and nervous system consolidation.
We explore how unprocessed grief, shame, anger, and longing often fuel fear responses. Through somatic presence, compassion, and emotional literacy, these layers are allowed to move without overwhelm, restoring emotional flow and capacity.
Resource: Ancestral support — offering resilience, continuity, and connection.
A deeper exploration of OCD themes and subtypes, including harm, responsibility, contamination, and relational fears. We look at how fear organizes through the body and nervous system, shaping vigilance, control, and compulsive strategies in the attempt to preserve safety and connection.
Resource: The volcano — allowing pressure to surface, supporting messiness, imperfection, and release through honest contact.
We explore deeper subconscious patterns underlying chronic fear, anxiety, and illness, including hidden loyalties, unfinished relational contracts, and longings for rescue, recognition, or justice. These patterns are met as intelligent responses to real rupture, opening pathways back toward belonging within a living ecology.
Resource: The web of belonging — holding light and dark, life and death, and restoring connection.
Parker J. Palmer
Find the practices that meet you where you are. Come home to your body and your aliveness, held by community and guided with care.
Every month in The Gathering Stream offers a rhythm of live practices, mentorship, movement, and community care that support healing, growth, and deeper participation in life.
Our classes weave together mindfulness, somatic tracking, nervous system awareness, inquiry, movement, creativity, and collective practice. Whether you are navigating chronic illness, complex trauma, anxiety, grief, or simply longing for more aliveness and connection, there are many pathways into the work.
What You Can Expect
Weekly Open Mentoring, Practice Circle & Q&A with Simona — bring your questions, challenges, and experiences into a live space of teaching, inquiry, and collective learning.
Heart Coherence Practice with Simona — a short practice to settle, regulate, and reconnect with yourself and the wider field of life.
RAIN Practice with Simona — guided mindfulness practices to help you meet emotions, symptoms, and difficult experiences with awareness and compassion.
Somatic Journalling & Expression Circle with Simona — creative and embodied explorations through writing, reflection, movement, and shared practice.
Weekly Inquiry Guided Practice with Simona — relational and contemplative practices that invite deeper self-understanding and connection with others.
Embodied Movement with Layah Jane — monthly 5Rhythms® Waves classes, community Q&As, and video prompts that support expression, creativity, and embodiment.
Meditation & Somatic Tracking with Alejandro — weekly Vipassana and somatic tracking practices that cultivate presence, nervous system capacity, and ease.
Community Sharing Circle with Alejandro — a space for connection, witnessing, and being held in community.
And More… — monthly themes, guest offerings, practice prompts, an ever-growing library of on-demand courses, and a global community of fellow travellers.
*Our schedule shifts seasonally and is always posted one to two months in advance, giving you plenty of time to plan and choose the practices that call to you.

Alongside our live practices, your membership includes full access to an ever-growing library of master classes and mini-courses. Each offering invites you to turn towards emotions, symptoms, and life experiences with compassion and curiosity, using somatics, mindfulness, inquiry, and nervous system awareness.
Find the practices that meet you where you are. Come home to your body and your aliveness, held by community and guided with care.

Simona Irwin is the founder of The Gathering Stream and creator of the Befriending Ourselves journey. Her work is rooted in deep ecology, mindfulness, movement, and trauma-informed care, offering a space where people turn towards themselves with compassion rather than striving to fix. Drawing on years of experience guiding individuals through fear, grief, and chronic symptoms, Simona brings a steady presence and a devotion to community as a path of healing.
She teaches the Befriending Ourselves Masterclasses and Series, leads weekly Structure and Flow meditations and Heart Coherence Circles, and facilitates ongoing mentorship sessions. Her vision is to create spaces where truth, tenderness, and aliveness can flourish.

Alejandro teaches trauma-informed yoga and meditation across diverse communities and has spent over 15 years helping people reconnect with their bodies and enhance their well-being. His areas of focus include somatics, embodied movement, addiction, nervous system regulation, mindfulness, meditation, and art and nature-based practices. With extensive experience on the frontlines of mental health and addiction services, he brings a trauma-informed, relational approach to both group facilitation and one-on-one mentorship.
Inside The Gathering Stream, Alejandro offers twice-weekly embodied mindfulness and community-building sessions, along with bi-weekly chair yoga and 1:1 Mentoring.

Layah Jane is a healing artist, 5Rhythms® teacher, musician, and mother who has been immersed in the practice of conscious movement for over 24 years. A certified 5Rhythms® teacher since 2014, she has facilitated expressive movement in classrooms, studios, fields, festivals, and online spaces since 2003.
Her teaching invites movement as medicine and creative practice as a path of healing, expression, and transformation. Layah's facilitation weaves ritual, improvisation, music, and embodied presence, creating spaces where people can reconnect with their aliveness and innate wisdom.
Inside The Gathering Stream, Layah offers monthly 5Rhythms® Waves classes, embodiment prompts, quarterly Q&As, and the Befriending Embodied Movement course.

Christy integrates her background as a physician and surgeon with over a decade of study in neuroplasticity, parts work, and somatic emotional processing. Her areas of focus include core beliefs, subconscious programming, meditation, and self-inquiry. Having navigated her own journey through chronic illness and grief, she offers a trauma-informed, holistic approach grounded in lived experience.
Christy weaves together Somatic Experiencing, IFS therapy, and nervous system education to support others in reclaiming resilience and authenticity. Within The Gathering Stream, Christy holds a monthly Grief Circle and Inquiry Group and is available for 1:1 mentoring.

Joanna brings both personal experience and professional training to her work in the community forum and beyond. Having overcome early developmental trauma and later navigating profound nervous system dysregulation after the birth of her child, she discovered the transformative power of befriending repressed emotions.
Now practicing as a mind-body therapist in Texas, Joanna supports others in finding wholeness and resilience. Within The Gathering Stream, Joanna guides participants through the Befriending Fear course and offers ongoing support and community building inside the forums. She lives with her husband, son, and two dogs, and nourishes her own well-being through art, nature, and writing.
A deep journey into meeting illness, pain, and fatigue with compassion and curiosity rather than fear or resistance. Over six sessions, we explore the science of neuroplasticity alongside somatic practices and gentle inquiry to loosen the grip of fear and fixation. Each session builds on a foundational top-down and bottom-up practice, shown to support reductions in anxiety, OCD patterns, and neuroplastic pain. All sessions were recorded during our live series and are now available on demand, allowing you to move through the journey at your own pace, in a way that supports your capacity and nervous system.
Many of us have spent tens of thousands of dollars on programs, therapy, biohacks, and more - only to find ourselves still searching. I created The Gathering Stream to be different. A truly sustainable and accessible way to return to yourself, with ongoing touch points several times each week, all for less than the cost of one therapy or bodywork session.
If purchased separately, you would pay:
Total Value: $1300+
Your Investment: $68/month
(about one third the cost of a single 1:1 session)
Start where you are. Move at your own pace. Cancel or pause your membership at any time.
"I’ve spent thousands on programs, specialists, and biohacks that left me chasing the next solution. This is the first space that actually feels sustainable. For less than what I used to pay for one therapy session, I now have classes, mentorship, and a whole community I can lean into every week."
"I didn’t realize how much I needed a community until I joined The Gathering Stream. To be in a space where others are walking the same path, where I can share honestly and feel held without judgment. It has been life-changing. I don’t feel alone in this anymore."
"When I first arrived, my days were ruled by fear of my symptoms. Through the live classes and the Befriending Ourselves library, I’ve learned to turn toward the sensations instead of running from them. The panic I lived with for years has softened, and I can finally trust my body enough to enjoy my life again."

What we are creating here is not another program or quick fix but a living community that invites us to rest in steady, paced and real change. This is a place where we meet ourselves honestly, where grief can find its rightful place, where fear and anger can be honoured for the wisdom they carry, and where joy and tenderness can be allowed to move through our bodies and our lives.
I come to this work through my own years of trauma and deep personal suffering, through illness, loss, and the sense of being trapped in patterns I could not escape. There were times when my body felt like a stranger, when fear and symptoms ruled my life, and when love seemed out of reach. The long journey of turning back toward myself, of slowly meeting what I had spent years running from, has been a path home to love.
The Gathering Stream was born from this journey. It is not a place where we strive to be perfect or polished, but a place where we allow our humanity, where we practice humility, and where we discover the strength of being in connection and relation. Each time we gather, we create a field of care and belonging that holds us as we move through change, through loss, and through the quiet and ordinary work of being human together.
As we do this work, it ripples out into our families, our communities, and into the larger collective. My devotion is to the one great body that we are all a part of, and my deepest hope is a world that leads with love.
With love,
Simona
-Bell Hooks
Please reach out to us at hello@turningtowards.me if you cannot find an answer to your question.
All core classes are recorded and added to the Befriending Ourselves Library, so you can return to them anytime. We also try to offer multiple time slots for the weekly meditations, which are not recorded, and we are beginning to build an audio section of on-demand meditations for even more flexibility.
Yes. Membership is month-to-month, and you can cancel or pause at any time with no hidden fees. This is meant to be a supportive space, not another source of pressure.
Absolutely. You can begin gently and move at your own pace. Some members join from bed or a chair, some simply listen, and others participate more actively. You are welcome exactly as you are.
No. The Gathering Stream is a community and practice space, not a substitute for therapy or medical care. The teachings are educational and supportive, and many people find them complementary to therapy, bodywork, or other healing paths.
The Gathering Stream is for anyone longing to feel more at home in themselves, whether you are moving through chronic illness, stress, grief, or simply a desire for deeper connection. It is not about fixing, but about turning towards what is alive and discovering resilience in community.
Yes. All are welcome in The Gathering Stream - all bodies, races, religions, genders, sexual orientations, abilities, and disabilities.
My background includes a deep commitment to collective liberation and the ongoing work of truth and reconciliation. This means naming the harms of colonialism, patriarchy, and other systems of oppression that continue to shape our lives, and doing my best to hold a space that is as inclusive and “safe enough” as possible.
I care deeply about this work and continue to weave it into my own life and teaching. At the same time, the primary focus of this community is on chronic illness, inner repair, sensitized nervous systems, and the tender process of regaining the capacity to meet life. As we grow in resilience together, we become more able to turn toward the larger systems that created the harms in the first place and to imagine new ways forward.
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